From Scottish redhead - Sharon

by Sharon Vanderwerf
(Edinburgh, Scotland)

I am a redhead, and I think I am quieter rather than fiery due to the attention my hair gets. I am very trustworthy, kind and charitable, but people seem to be cautious and surprised by my friendliness and chattiness. I do get fed up of being judged by people before they even know me. When someone stares too much or sniggers, I feel like saying, "You know it is rude to stare." It does all get to me lots. Most of negative things come from other women; men are generally ok, unless they are in a group and still teenagers.

I did flare up the other day when someone walked up behind me and belched on the back of my neck before calling me "ginger" -- that was too much to take. At that point, yes I was very hot tempered, but not because I have red hair. Anyone with any colour of hair would be upset by that treatment.